Zai iya ɗaukar abin da ba za a iya tsammani ba, amma, a kowace shekara, dubban 'yan Adam marasa rai sun tsira ba ta tsira da' yan uwa, abokai, da kuma ƙaunatattun su ba. A cewar wani labarin da aka wallafa a cikin Chicago Tribune a shekarar 2010, kimanin kashi 1 cikin 100 na duk wani mummunan shari'ar da aka yi a Amurka ya haifar da rashin jinƙan mutuwar . Don sanya wannan a matsayin hangen zaman gaba, Ƙungiyar Cremation na Arewacin Amirka (CANA) ta yi kiyasin cewa mutuwar mutane 998,500 a shekarar 2010 zai kunshi tashin hankali.
Idan ana tunanin cewa yawancin tsaran da aka rage ba tare da tsabtace su ba a kowace shekara daidai ne, wannan yana nufin cewa kimanin kusan 10,000 na ƙurar ɗan adam, ko kuma a cikin gida ko ƙananan kwantena, ba a taɓa dauka ta hanyar iyalai, abokai ko ƙaunatattu ba a 2010 kadai. (Ba shakka, CANA ba tarihi ba ne a cikin shekarun da suka gabata na ƙaddarar da aka yi a Amurka, don haka ainihin lamarin ya fi girma.)
Kuma wannan matsala ba na musamman ba ne ga Amurka. A Ostiraliya, gine-gine uku a yankin Perth na kasar ne kawai ke ajiye kusan 300 na "toka" da iyalai ba da da'awa ba. Kuma a cikin Ƙasar Ingila, inda kimanin kashi 73.15 cikin 100 na mutuwar a shekara ta 2010 sun haɗu da cin hanci (kimanin kashi 40.62% a Amurka a wancan shekarar), masu ba da jima'i sunyi maganin matsalolin iyalan da ba su samo asarar rayuka ba har tsawon ƙarni , tare da wasu kamfanonin har yanzu rike da ragowar gindin zama tun daga ƙarshen 1800s.
Dalilai
Akwai dalilai masu yawa da ke taimakawa wajen ci gaba da girma na rashin ciwo marar laifi, amma mai yiwuwa shugaba a cikinsu shine tattalin arziki. Sai dai idan ba a binne jana'izar ko binnewa ba, wasu iyalai ba za su iya biyan bashin ba ko yanke shawara ba su so su biya bashin dalili. Duk da kokarin da ake yi na jana'izar, binnewa da masu ba da wuta don saduwa da waɗannan iyalan, shirye-shiryen da yawa sun ƙare kuma ba zaɓin kawai ba ne don hayar ma'aikata.
Saboda yanayin kula da marigayin da damuwa game da rashin fahimta, yawancin masu samarwa suna jin dadi don neman wannan ma'auni don haka baza'a iya samun ƙuƙumi ba.
Harkokin iyali na gida shine wani dalili kuma cewa iyalai ba su karɓa ba . Wasu lokuta mawuyacin zumuntar da aka yi daga matacce saboda matsalolin da ba a magance su ba a farkon rayuwar da ke haifar da rashin nuna bambanci game da yanayin karshe na dangin danginsa ya mutu bayan mutuwa. A wasu lokuta, iyalai suna jayayya game da wanda ya kamata ya karbi ragowar ko, mafi sau da yawa, abin da ya kamata a yi tare da su saboda mutane ba su da cikakkiyar fahimtar ra'ayi na ƙarshe, kuma suna sa masu tsira su yi la'akari da abin da "Mama" ko "Dad" zai so . A ƙarshe, kuma bakin ciki, wasu mutane sun mutu ba tare da wani mai tsira ba wanda yake kulawa da yawa don karɓar alhakin karɓar mutuwarsa.
Kamar yadda sauti yake, jahilci mai sauƙi zai iya lissafa wa mutum baya ɗaukar ƙurmus . Wasu mutane ba su sani ba game da tsarin ƙetawar da kuma kuskuren sunyi imani cewa jiki yana "ɓacewa" bayan an kone shi. A gaskiya ma, ƙaddamar da mummunar girma na matasan da ake samu a cikin ƙwayar wuta yana da nauyin kilo 2.27 - 3.63 kilogram (5 - 8 fam).
Yayinda yake da wuya mai yiwuwa wani darektan jana'izar ko mai ba da shawarwari ba zai iya tabbatar da wanzuwar mutuwar tsabta ba, wadanda suka tsira suna kallon wannan hujja za su iya zama uzuri (a wasu lokuta) ta hanyar mummunar baƙin ciki da kuma rashin fahimtar jama'a tsarin aiwatar da shari'ar .
Rarraba game da abin da za a yi tare da ƙananan cututtuka sun kasance sanadiyar wasu iyalai ba tare da ɗaukar abubuwan da suke ciki ba da kwakwalwa na kwanakin kurkuku wanda ke ɗauke da ƙarancin ƙaunatattun su. A yau, mafi yawan mutane suna hulɗa da ƙetare amma ba su fahimci cewa akwai wasu hanyoyi masu yawa don kula da ragowar ƙurar .
Binciken wani abu mafi "dacewa" ga marigayin, da kuma rashin kula da yawancin zaɓuɓɓuka da ake samu, wasu iyalai ba su da'awar ragowar ƙurar ƙaunatattun su saboda suna (zaton kuskure) suna son su yanke shawarar abin da zasu yi da su a farkon.
A ƙarshe, wani dalili wanda ya kasance ba shi da tabbacin shi ne cewa ɗaukar ƙarancin ƙarancin ƙaunataccen yana buƙatar gane gaskiyar mutuwar, wanda wasu mutane ke da wuya a karɓa . Yayinda kowa da kowa ke fuskanci amsawa ta musamman dangane da lokaci da kuma tsanani, "baƙin ciki" na baƙin ciki ƙarshe ya haifar da sanin cewa mai ƙaunar ƙaunatacciyar gaskiya gaskiya ce, ba tare da bata lokaci ba. A wasu lokuta, duk da haka, mutane ba za su iya magance wannan hujja ba saboda haka kauce wa ɗaukar ƙarancin ƙarancin ƙaunatacciyar saboda, a hankali ko a'a, yin haka zai kasance ainihin gaskiyar da suke neman kaucewa. Duk da yake irin wannan " rikitarwa baƙin ciki " zai iya bayyana wasu lokuttan da ba a cece su ba, ba shakka ba a lissafi ga mafi yawansu ba.
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"Turar da aka yi da wuta ba shi da tabbacin, amma ba a so ba" by William Hageman, Janairu 17, 2010. Chicago Tribune . Retrieved Agusta 15, 2014. http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2010-01-17/features/1001140373_1_cremated-remains-sets
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