Ya fita akwai wata dalili da ya sa za mu iya jin dadin jama'a "m" a wasu lokuta.
Mutanen da ke da ƙwayar sclerosis (MS) suna da alamomi na jiki da na motsa jiki wanda zai iya hana hulɗar zamantakewa da rayuwa mai zaman kanta, ciki har da matsalolin motsi, damuwa da gajiya. Duk da haka, akwai wasu batutuwa masu mahimmanci waɗanda zasu iya tsangwama ga iyawarmu don daidaitawa.
Ina tuna lokacin da nake kallon gabatarwa game da mutane da MS wadanda suke da raguwa a wani abu da ake kira "ka'idar tunani" kamar 'yan shekarun da suka wuce, amma sai na kama kan maganin cututtuka na jiki da kuma ci gaba a cikin jiyya da irin abin da aka manta shi.
Duk da haka, a cikin shekara ta biyu ko biyu, Na lura cewa a wasu lokatai na da wuya lokacin ganowa da motsin zuciyar mutane da motsin zuciyarmu. Na yi la'akari da cewa har yanzu an yi nisa daga manya a gida tare da yarinya matasa, amma sun yanke shawarar sake dawowa ka'idar tunanin tunani bayan da mahimmancin hulɗar zamantakewar al'umma.
Ka'idar tunani (ToM) shine mahimmancin ikon gane abin da wani mutum ke ji, tunanin da abin da suke nufi. Don samun duk waɗannan abubuwan kaya daidai yana buƙatar wani nau'i na aiki mai hankali da kuma motsa jiki ya faru da sauri a yayin hulɗar zamantakewa. Kamar yadda yawancin mu da MS sun sani, rashin tausayi na hankali shine babban alama kuma yana iya jinkirtar da mu lokacin da muke ƙoƙarin yin abubuwa kamar tuna wasu kalmomi, dafa abin girke-girke, bin zance - da mahimmanci, zai iya hana mana damar aiki " "a cikin duniyar zamani na rikice-rikice da rikice-rikice na zamani.
Bisa ga binciken biyu, yana kama da waɗannan ƙananan hankali na "ƙullun" zai iya haɓaka ikonmu na dangantaka da wasu, haka nan.
- Ɗaya daga cikin binciken Hungary ya nuna cewa mutanen da ke da MS "suna da lalacewa wajen fassara yanayin zamantakewa da kuma yin aiki a cikin mahallin magana," ko da yake ba su nuna alamun bayyanar cututtuka ko rashin lafiya ba. An auna wannan tare da gwaje-gwaje don auna ma'aunin zamantakewar jama'a da kuma tambayoyin tambaya don ƙayyade matakan damuwa.
- Wani bincike na Australian ya gano cewa mutane da MS sunyi muni akan gwaje-gwaje na ToM fiye da gudanarwa ba tare da MS ba. Mutanen da ke tare da MS sun nuna mawuyacin fahimtar fuskokin fushi da tsoro. Masu bincike sunyi bayanin cewa wannan yana da alaka da rashin aiki a cikin "Gudanarwa" da kuma gudunmawar sarrafa bayanai.
An kuma kira wannan "lalacewar zamantakewar al'umma."
To, ina ne wannan ya bar mana? Dole ne in ce, ba ni da wannan damuwa game da wannan. Ya bayyana yawancin tattaunawa na da yawa. Har ila yau, na} ara tabbatar da} o} arin da zan yi, na "zama a wannan lokacin" lokacin da nake magana da mutane. Na yi ƙoƙari sosai don saurarewa kuma sauraron tattaunawar da nake shiga, juyawa baya, kallon mutumin lokacin da suke magana, ƙara tunani a cikin amsawata, na roki wani ya tabbatar da karatun ni game da tunanin su ( idan ina da shakka cewa na gane). Mutane sun gaya mini kwanan nan cewa ni "mai saurare mai kyau," take da zan yi ba a kwanakin da na shiga cinikayya na tunanin mutum da kuma jerin abubuwa yayin tattaunawa.
Ta hanyar wannan alama, zan shirya tare da wanda nake magana da kuma abin da zan tattauna. Wadannan kwanaki, kowa yana da ƙarar game da harkokin siyasar, tattalin arziki, da yanayi - da sunanka, mutane suna so su rantse.
Na bayyana sharuddan dokoki game da abubuwan da ba zan iya shiga ba, ko da yake na yi ƙoƙarin yin shi da kalmomi masu kyau, kalmomi masu kyau. Na gano cewa yana magana da irin wannan, "Oh, ina jin tsoron ba na bi wannan a cikin kafofin watsa labaru ba. Zai yiwu mafi kyau idan ka yi amfani da lokacinka da hikima fiye da magana da ni game da wannan batu" alama ya fitar Duk wani lokaci ya kamata a raba ni tare da ni. A gaskiya, a kan ra'ayi, mutane suna yiwuwa kawai ina tunanin ina m.
Karanta abin da wasu mutane da MS suka yi game da kalubale da matsalolin zamantakewar al'umma : Zamantakewa na Jama'a na Mutum tare da MS: Labarin Masu Lura .
Ƙarin karatun a kan dysfunction hankali:
- Sakamakon Sakamakon Sakamakon Halitta a matsayin Maɗaukaki na Multi Sclerosis
- Tips don yin hulɗa da Dysfunction mai hankali a Multiple Sclerosis
Sources:
Banati M, Sandor J, Mike A, Illes E, Bors L, Feldmann A, Herold R, Illes Z. Social cognition da Theory of Mind a cikin marasa lafiya tare da relapsing-mayar da yawa sclerosis. Eur J Neurol. 2009 Nuwamba 17. [Epub gaban bugun]
Henry JD, Phillips LH, Beatty WW, McDonald S, Longley WA, Joscelyne A, Rendell PG. Tabbatar da gazawa a fuskar mutum yana shafar sanarwa da ka'idar tunani a cikin ƙananan sclerosis. J Int Neuropsychol Soc . 2009 Mar; 15 (2): 277-85.