Tun daga lokacin da nake son dan Adam, Tom, ya zama ɗan yarinya, Na ji labarin muhimmancin "Ilimin Rayuwa na Gaskiya." A matsayin mai kyau inna, ba shakka, ina son Tom ya zauna a matsayin mai zaman kansa - don haka sai na fara kallo game da Ma'anar Rahoton Rayayyun Rayuwa don gano ainihin ma'anar kalmar. Na fara tunanin cewa "Rayayyun Rayayyun Rayuwa" da ake magana a kai kawai ga basirar da matasa da matasan suke bukata su shiga cikin rana - amma akwai (ko zai iya zama) fiye da shi.
Nau'o'i na Ilimin Rayuwa na Gaskiya
Abu na farko da na koyi shi ne, kalmar "ƙwarewar rayuwa ta zaman kanta" ba a amfani da ita ba - kuma idan aka yi amfani da shi, zai iya nufin abubuwa daban-daban ga mutane daban-daban. Akwai ƙididdiga masu yawa da gwaje-gwaje. Sau da yawa, Sifofin Rayayye na Rayuwa sun rushe zuwa wasu nau'o'in basirar da suka fadi - kamar:
- Kwarewar rayuwa (yawancin lokuta na yau da kullum don basirar yau kamar kwarewar gidan wanka, tufafi, ci, da dai sauransu)
- Gwaran aiki (yawanci yawancin damar yin aiki a cikin al'ada irin su ajiya, cafeteria, bas, da dai sauransu ba tare da buƙatar goyon baya na musamman don yin zabi mai dacewa kuma dauki mataki mai dacewa; yin hanyarka ta hanyar cafeteria makaranta zai zama fasaha na aiki)
- Lokaci ko wasanni na raye-raye (waɗannan sun bambanta, amma zasu iya shiga zuwa fina-finai, shiga cikin wasanni na wasanni, zuwa ɗakin karatu, da sauransu.)
- Ayyukan aiki ko ƙwarewar sana'a (duk abin da ya dace da yin aiki da kuma riguna don yin aiki a lokaci, hulɗa tare da wasu a wurin aiki, da yin aikin)
- Abun zamantakewar jama'a ko haɗin kai (wannan yana iya nuna gaisuwa ga mutane daidai, amma kuma zai iya haɗawa da duk wani abu daga kulawa da dangantaka ta jima'i zuwa hanyoyi masu dacewa don yin hulɗa tare da kocin ko memba na ƙungiyar)
- Hanyoyin fasaha (zaka iya amfani da wayar salula? Kwamfuta? Kuna iya duba bayanai, biya abubuwan akan layi, da sauransu?)
Kowane ɗayan ƙungiyoyin basira, haƙiƙa, an yi shi ne daga ƙananan kungiyoyin fasaha. Yin tafiya zuwa fina-finai, alal misali, zai iya ƙunsar ikon iya gano lokacin da fim yana wasa, zuwa fim ɗin a lokaci, biyan kuɗin tikitin, saya abun ciye-ciye, kallon fim din daidai, sa'an nan kuma dawo gida. Yana iya haɗawa da yin ado da kayan ado kafin barin gidan, tabbatar da cewa an kulle ƙofar (amma makullin suna cikin aljihunka) da sauransu.
Bincike don Teen
Saboda babu wani kima da aka ba a fadin jirgi, ƙididdiga na musamman da aka ba ku ko yaronku na iya zama cikakke kuma an yi niyya ga kowa da shekaru 14-22 (ko mazan). A sakamakon haka, wasu daga cikin gwaje-gwajen suna neman su kunshi dukkanin fasaha wanda ya girma girma a matsayin kansa a cikin gida ba tare da goyon bayan abin da zai buƙaci don shiga cikin kowane bangare na rayuwa ba.
Duk da yake wasu fasaha da aka kwatanta sune na asali (gashin gashi, alal misali), ƙwarewar da aka kwatanta a cikin waɗannan ƙididdiga sun wuce abin da 99% na matasa ko matasan ko ma TAMBAYA game da yin. Kwarewar Ayyuka na Rayuwa, alal misali, yana farawa tare da mahimman bayanai - tsabtace jiki, kayan ado, cin abinci, kayan ado - amma har yanzu yana ci gaba da yin amfani da ƙwarewa da yawa daga cikin cikakken bayani game da gyaran gida na iya magance matsalar gaggawa ta musamman.
A ka'idar, bayan sun ɗauki kwarewar ɗaya ko daya na Kwarewar Kwarewar Ayyuka, Ƙungiyar IEP (ko wata ƙungiya mai kula idan mutum ya wuce 22) zai kafa wasu tsare-tsare na musamman don koyar da waɗannan basira. Saboda haka, ga mutumin da bai iya sarrafa kullun ba, wani burin na iya rushe fasaha don haɗawa da ɗaukan tire, yin zafin jiki, biya don abinci, shan abinci zuwa teburin, cin abinci daidai, sannan bussing tebur. Wannan mutumin zai iya samun ƙarin burin da ya danganci sadarwa, kewayawa, da sauransu.
Mataki na farko da ke samun irin wannan burin da kuma goyon bayan kafa shi ne yin la'akari; matakai na gaba, duk da haka, zai iya zama da wuya a sanya shi cikin wuri.
Yana da wuya a yi tunanin kowane shirin da zai iya koyar da kowa ga dukan yankuna na Rayayye Rayuwa - ko da yake tabbas wasu sun sami nasara.